2013年12月25日 星期三

Annotaion 4

  According to “Making war, not love : A French Views On Sex In America-From Abu Ghraib To DSK, wrote by Pascal Bruckner, who comes from France.” It had mentioned when his two-year-old daughter took off her bathing suit on Florida beach. The summer visitors started looking at them, and then the sheriff came and shouted at them that they had to get their daughter dressed again even though she was just a baby.

  In this incident, it points out an interesting view of the view between America and France. The North America has a problem with sex that comes from its Protestant legacy. While in France, it really didn’t have strict conception about sex, on the contrast, in America, they do care about this because of their religion, just like when Bill Clinton had an affair with a White House assistant. It not only aroused a great sensation in society, but also he was sanctioned because he lied. 

“In France, an extra-marital affair is better understood than in America where it seen as nothing less than a crime.” When America produces so many adult videos but they say they couldn’t accept adult videos pop up in their lives, isn’t it strange and meaningless? 

It is the different between America and France’s view when talking about adult videos. In my opinion, adult videos are not that bad. People may worry about the influence. However, I love the Batman, when it comes out, it leads to some people died under the gun shot due to the imitation of the plots. Isn’t it more serious when we are talking about human’s life? Influence exists everywhere, not only happens in adult videos. 

Source:
Pascal Bruckner, (2011) Making war, not love : A French Views On Sex In America-From Abu Ghraib To DSK

Transcription 2

Eva:
Hi, our topic is Delete his (D:) or not? It's about adult video. I'm Eva, and she is Vicky. I can't accept my lover to watch adult video. Although someone will think adult video is just an entertainment, like girls go shopping to spend their time. But in fact, I think watching adult video must bring some bad influence. So in my opinion, I do really care so just delete. And these are the reason why I can't support this issue.

Although we know adult video is just a commodity, if you keep watching, it will cause an addiction, so it will make you couldn't tell reality from the fantasy. And next may influence you and your lover, like ignore your lover just like keep going watch adult video and didn't want to date with your lover. Adult video is just a drama, easy to say, it is fake, so it may express wrong information about sex. Finally it will influence your life.


I want to talk about the situation of people who watched adult video in Taiwan. According to the search from Taipei Woman Rescue Foundation, the frequency of watching adult video in Taiwan is the highest rate in the world. But most of people in Taiwan were not be satisfied with their sex life. Here, this is Taiwan, and this is America, and last one is Europe. Just look at it. So I think watching adult video would really affect people and their lovers, of course not just in their sexual life. And this form is talk about people who watch adult video more, would cause over illusion in their life easier. Like this one, if you walking on the road, and saw sexy woman or handsome boy, you will watch their bottom first, and more want to have sex with them.


And next I will show a video to you guys, it is about the difference between porn sex and real sex. This video is very famous in YouTube, you guys all saw that they used vegetables and fruits to replace some sexual scene. And I want to show you another video, is HuffPost, they saw that video and they inspired by the video, and they spoke to woman who worked in porn industry and asked them to share what's the difference between porn sex and real sex. Here's the first woman, she called Jincey, and she is a sex officer in some sexual website. And second woman, she is a adult video actress in America, she is very famous, too. So, the host will asked her the question. After saw these two videos, I want to tell you my conclusion. Number one, would rather say no than pretend to accept it. Because some girls will say "I can accept my boyfriend to watch adult video but don't show me or you can see adult video but I can't watch together with you". But one day, if you go home, and you opened the door, and you saw this scene, you might be embarrassed. That's means you are not really don't care. So I think you can just talked to your lover and told him to delete adult video. And second is should spend more time with your lover. Last one is don't let adult video to become you two problem. Next one is Vicky.


Vicky:

Hi, I am Vicky, and I am standing on the supporting side of this issue. When talking about adult video, people in Taiwan always put a negative tag on it. Just like it is dirty, it is not a right thing or it will do nothing right for the teenagers. But, why is so serious about it? There are some reasons that people said why they watch adult videos. The first is that they need to vent their physiological needs. Because for men who have girlfriends, it is not always the proper time for them when they have a need. Maybe their girlfriends didn’t feel well. Second, because they are bored. They just watch it as a film. And they may are curiosity, adding desire and consuming.

I will show two examples about the couples who said that they accept their lovers watch adult videos. First, you can see on the top of the PowerPoint is Cool Dad and Cool Mom. They have married for more than twenty years and have children. They said that they believe watch adult videos could promote their feelings in their relationship. When their son turned to teenager, they also let their son to watch adult videos. Because they think that instead of forbidding their son to it, they would rather let him watch and discuss with them and tell him the difference between reality and the truth. The couple under the PowerPoint is the younger, Mia and Echo. In the interview, Echo, the man, said that sometimes his needs are too frequent, so he would download the adult videos beforehand, and he would watch them when Mia was not at home or Mia was taking a shower. Because he thought that his needs are too frequent, it is a problem for him. He always needs it, his girlfriend would feel tired. They would also watch adult videos together to promote their feeling in their relationship.


I will show you an interesting photo. The words on it said that ”Porn movie and Disney are responsible for the most frustrated human being I know. ” The girl said that where the hell is my prince charming? The boy said that where the hell is my insatiable whore? It is interesting to compare Disney and adult videos. Because in our minds, Disney is about fairy tale for children to read or watch. But, exactly, if people are too addicted to them, no matter is Disney or adult videos, it will also influence their real lives, even is Disney. Because the girl may think that she would just stay at home and her prince would come and save her. So, it is on the same balance. If people are too addicted to something, it will lead to the same ending; it would influence your life, not just the adult videos.



If we have to talk about the influence, then how about these exciting movies? As we call 爽片in Chinese. Like Seediq Bale, if people watch it, maybe when they see Nod, they would want to cut off Nod’s head. Transformers, it is full of fighting and the Fast and Furious, it is talking about driving fast and dangerous, and people would think it is a cool thing to drive fast, or you would have girlfriend if you drive fast. So I think that it is not an influence for adult videos. If you have to say this, the exciting movies on the movie theater would also have these influences. 



Q&A


Eric:

Hi, I want to ask Eva. I love your videos and your ppt's structure. But I'm sensitive a little bit about sexual discrimination, because all the ppt give me a a feeling that is always be man will watch adult videos. I want to ask your opinion about that.

Eva:

When I write my annotation 1 or 2 or 3, there always someone, I don't know who, always leave a message like yours, why is not girls watching adult video. But I found my information on website, one comment I saw that is most of adult video is just really for man, so I just take most part of this situation, maybe I can use why woman watch adult video this kind of situation to write my annotation 4, thank you.

Knot:

I think compare to Eva's presentation, your presentation is also funny but not as active as Eva's, you guys are all really great but I think Eva is more shiny powerpoint, and yours like a good powerpoint, but is just a good powerpoint. I think the way Eva use video is great, and when she cut it very properly, it won't slowly down the path, you can ask her.

Cassie:

I think both of your powerpoint are clearly, but sometime your voice are too fast for us to understand. For Eva, you sometime talked too fast and for Vicky, I think sometimes your voice is too murky for me, sometimes you just combine the words together. Thank you.

Niki:

I think Vicky's point is more convince, compare to Eva's.

Tony:

Because we think Eva point out many ideas, but Vicky all defense her points well. And she mentioned clearly. And we think Vicky seems convince us more.

Joanne:

I think it is convincing. Because I think Eva’s part is from the perspective of male. But I also think many females watch porn videos. You said the different from the real sex and the video sex. But the video sex is different, is like a fantasy. Everyone want to watch the big one, (I don’t know how to say), I think it is not a bad thing. 

2013年11月30日 星期六

Delete his D drive or not (Annotation 3)

  

  My first annotation is about public young people’s opinions from PTT or discussion boards, and my second is professional opinions from one report by W.H. Jung’s report (2012).

  My third annotation is about one TV show, Hot Issue (2011), hosted by Belle Yu and Sam Cen, popular host in Taiwan. In the TV show, this episode, why men like to watch adult videos, not only talked about why men watch adult videos but also interviewed one couple, Mia and Echo, who would watch adult videos together, and interview people between different age, generation and sex. 

  Mia and Echo, is the younger couple who believe watching adult videos would promote the feeling between lovers. In the interview, Echo said that sometimes his needs are too frequent; he would download the adult video beforehand, and watch it to vent physiological needs when Mia was taking a bath. In the interview, it also talked about the different point when men and women watch adult videos. Most men would focus on the action while most women would focus on the plot. 

There is another elder couple, Cool Dad and Cool Mom, who is married and having children. They would watch adult videos to promote their feeling with their children. Instead of forbidding them to watch adult videos, they would choose to let them watch and discuss with them to tell them the differences between video and reality. They sometimes also watch adult videos to add some interests in their daily lives.

Actually, it is natural for human to have demands. If the way they use to solve the demands without bothering others and don’t cause problems, I couldn’t figure out what is the point to forbid. 


Source:
Hot Issue(2011), Why men like to watch adult videos?  (Video)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bh19l0FamSk
  

2013年11月29日 星期五

Delete his Drive or not (Annotation 2 revised)

Report from Coolloud website.(2012) It is hard for sex to get rid of the negative tag.(Chinese)

Chuen Juei Ho, the professor of Department of English at NCU once said that our society usually regards adult videos as devil or something dirty, and sees it as the main reason why sexual harassments and sexual violences happen.

However, if it is that easy the reality could be affected by watching adult videos, and been connected to the incidents mentioned above, then we should prohibit lots of movies that we called exciting movies (爽片), which means the movies only have lots of huge scenes and without consuming audiences’ brain cells. Most people love to watch them during their free time. If so, fast and furious should be prohibited because it may lead to car crushes and drag racings, and lots of action movies also need to be prohibited because they would lead to violent cases.

There is one interesting picture on the website, stuff no-one told me, showed that “Porn movie and Disney are responsible for the most frustrated human beings I know.”




It is funny to compare adult videos and Disney, because actually it gives people the different meaning when watch it, but it leads to the same ending. If one person is too addicted to the Disney or adult videos, they would still influence his real life.  

It is true that some of the adult videos present in a violent way, like 3P or SM and so on. But this is how the market works, the demand exists and the supply shows up. If we have to forbid the film-makes to take this kind of adult videos, I think it is more important to focus on education, to tell the students what is too exaggerating and what is unrealistic instead of seeing it as something untellable. Because they will find another way to know this, and without education, they would just accept all this unrealistic information.

  


Sources:
(1)
Wang Hau Jung. (2012). “It is hard for sex to get rid of the negative tag(Chinese). Retrieved July 03, 2012, from http://www.coolloud.org.tw/node/70082

(2)Alex Norigea. (2010) "Stuff no one told me" (Picture)
http://www.snotm.com/2010/06/blog-post.html

2013年11月27日 星期三

Delete his D Drive or not (Reflection)

My first annotation is about why men need to watch adult videos and what would their girlfriend feel when she found out her boyfriend watching adult videos, and my sources are from PTT or the discussion boards. Therefore, most part of my sources is from young people, who are familiar with Internet than elder generation. My second annotation is from Chuen-Juei Ho, the professor of Department of English at NCU, talking about, in Taiwan, sex has always been posted on a negative tag. My third annotation is going to talk about a TV talk show, Hot Issue, viewing why men like to watch adult videos, it mentions different answers and opinions between generation and characters, which some are fathers some are not, or some are married some are not. In the show, they also interview one couple who would watch adult videos together, it is really not the same as the usual thing couple would do in Taiwan.

After the discussion in class, my fourth annotation may do deep research in the different view about pornography between America and Europe. In my first and third annotation, I had found the difference between different age, so in the last annotation, it would be better to compare not only the age but also intercultural difference. There are some papers talking about this, and it is interesting to do this research that I hadn’t thought about it before.

Other group’s topics are common. But when listening to their reports, it seems they had read some information about their topic, so they could write their topics in new and different angles.  

 Justine and Joselin’s topic, “Premarital Cohabitation”, they not only talk about the face of affection, they also refer economic ability is one of the reason, which is a new angle. However, the most interesting and strangest part is that they have the same data but lead to different opinion, which is really unexpected for the readers. It would make us start to wonder why, and lead us to the next annotation.

Emily and Claire’s topic, “Adultery pulls you out of the abyss of emptiness” is talking about should accepted the adultery for giving children a complete family or divorcing. This group had posed many examples, which is one and another story, which makes the reader easy to understand which part they stand, their view, and makes their articles more interesting. Most of their sources come from the library; they said they went to there and read the books one after another which are all having relation to their topic.


Niki and Phoebe’s topic,” Is it appropriate to use showgirl as a commercial strategy?”, investigate the common phenomenon now in Taiwan. Many girls wear a few clothes, shuttling in the exhibition, selling the products, and some guys took lots of photos of them. Their topic is easy to connect to our daily life because we all have seen this phenomenon before. However, there is a few problems that their arguments tends to one part when listening to their report. 

2013年11月12日 星期二

Delete his D Drive or not (Revised 1)


Statistic data shows that in Taiwan, most men watch adult videos once or twice a week. When these men have girlfriends, they would still watch adult films, maybe without letting their girlfriends know. Therefore, would these girlfriends delete his D drives if they are unpleasant about this? Their girlfriends would think “OH MY GOD! You still watch ADULT VIDEOS when you are with me”. They can’t understand why.
Below is one of my friend’s story.
  I have two friends and they are couples. One day they have an argue later they broke up in a few days. The reason is because one day girl found that there are some adult films in the boy’s cellphone, and she couldn’t understand. So she asked her boyfriend, and her boyfriend said it is usual for men to have adult videos in their cellphones. But the girl didn’t accept answer, she thinks that why you have adult films in the cellphone when you have girlfriend? After that, they had a furious fight. One day, the girl deleted her boyfriend’s adult films all in his cellphone. The boy was really angry. But I didn’t know that his angry part is because his girlfriend deleted the adult films or because he thought that his girlfriend didn’t respect him to delete his files and didn’t tell him.

  I stand for accepting a man watching adult videos even when he has a girlfriend.
Girlfriends may think that men don’t love them, so they watch adult videos, and other naked women. But, it is unfair and ridiculous to connect these two incidents together, since some women would cave into the drama plot and couldn’t get out.


An adult video is to a man what a soap drama is to a woman; the difference is that an adult video is for physiological needs when soap drama is for psychological needs. Man may not understand their girlfriends crying over before the little screen. They may not understand their girlfriends only have two legs but they have dozens of shoes, as if they are centipedes. Even though, the adult videos’ tastes now are dramatic, but according to the motivation, it is the same, and it won’t affect the relationship between the lovers.

Annotation 1 revised

My last article is talking about should girlfriends accept their boyfriends watching adult videos.
  Men didn't know why women hate adult video so madly, and women can't understand why their boyfriends still watch it when they have girlfriends.

  Women would consider that men watch adult videos means they didn't be satisfied. This war between men and women is always a hot issue in relationship. There are lots of discussions about it on Internet.

  Most replies on Ptt and discussion boards which stand on men's side reply that it is a custom for them and it is farfetched to connect watching adult videos and loving his girlfriend or not these two incidents.

  In the thesis in source 2, there are some reasons why men watching adult videos.


  1. Because they were bored.

  When women are boring, they would gather to go shopping. For some people, adult videos are just a tool to kill time and see it as a kind of drama.


  2. Adding desires when making love


  3.Vent physiological need

   Some men may not have girlfriends, some men may have girlfriends but their girlfriends are tired, feel uncomfortable. Sometime, men may just want to vent physiological need, they also know they have to respect their girlfriends. Therefore, they can't ask girlfriends for sex whenever they need it. It will make their girlfriends feel uncomfortable and disrespect. Watching adult videos become an easy and convenient way to vent physiological needs.
  People feel upset when there are too many bad moods hidden in their mind, so does the desire. It is easier to watch adult films when they want to vent physiological need. It is a physiological need like we need to eat and sleep to live.


 4. Curiosity 
 5. Rich sex knowledge  
 6. Imitate 
 7. Satisfied the desire as a peeper 

 8. Watching beautiful and sexy people  

2013年10月30日 星期三

Delete his D drive or not (Annotation 2)

After the presentation last week, I got some peer responses and made me rethink more details about my topic. Some responses replied that I should consider the age and the problem of addition. Man and Woman I had mentioned in my blogger are been defined as adults, who have the ability to make choice by themselves. Talking about addition, I thought you can’t blamed it all on adult videos, if though, then watching soap opera or do anything may also lead to addition.

Josephine Chuen-juei Ho, the professor of Department of English at NCU once said that society usually regards adult videos as devil or something dirty, and seen it as the main reason why sexual harassments and sexual violences happen.

But, if it is that easy the reality could be affected by watching adult videos, and been connected to the incidents mentioned above. Then we should prohibit lots of movies that we called exciting movies (爽片), which means the movies only have lots of huge scenes and without consuming audiences’ brain cells, and most people loves to watch them during their free time. If so, Fast and Furious should be prohibited because it may lead to car crushes and drag racings, and lots of action movies also need to be prohibited because it would lead to violent cases.

It is true that some of the adult videos present in a violent way, like 3P or SM…etc. But this is how the market works, the demand exists and the supply shows up. If we have to forbid the film-makes to take this kind of adult videos, I think it is more important to focus on education, to tell the students what is too exaggerating and what is unrealistic instead of seeing it as something untellable. Because they will find another way to know this, and without education, they would just accept all this unrealistic information.
  
  

Wang Hau Jung. (2012). “It is hard for sex to get rid of the negative tag(Chinese). Retrieved July 03, 2012, from http://www.coolloud.org.tw/node/70082
  

Delete his D drive or not (Video Transcription)

Vicky:
Hello, everyone. Our topic is “Delete his D drive or not”. First, I want to tell you a story. I have two friends and they are couples, and one day they have an argue and then they broke up. The girl came to tell me that the reason. Because one day found that there are some adult films in the boy’s cellphone. She couldn’t understand her boyfriend had those films in his cellphone. So she asked her boyfriend, and her boyfriend said it is usual for men have adult videos in their cellphones. But my girlfriend didn’t accept answer, because she thinks that why you have adult films in the cellphone when you have girlfriend? So they have a very furious fight. After that, one day, my girlfriend deleted her boyfriend’s adult films all in his cellphone. The boy was really really really angry. But I didn’t know that his angry part is because his girlfriend deleted the adult films or because he thought that his girlfriend didn’t respect him to delete his files and didn’t tell him. This is my story. One day, when Eva and I are very very confusing about our topic, we think about it, and this is why we want to do about this topic, and Eva will ask you some question.

Eva:
  HI,I am Eva. I am going to ask you guys some questions. “Can you accept your boyfriend or girlfriend to watch adult videos when you are together or in the relationship. If you accept, please raise your hand. And if you can not accept this ,please raise your hand. So this is very clear, I am the opposition and she is agreeing with this issue.

Vicky:
  I want to ask Kevin a question, Kevin, may I ask you question? I want ask your opinion about our topic.

Kevin:
  I just think that too much adult films is not good for me.

Vicky and Eva:
  Our topic is about your lover.

Kevin:
  @#$%. I am afraid she will compare me to the 12344?

Eva:
  And I want to ask Niki, why you accept your boyfriend watch adult videos?

Niki:
  I don’t think it is false to watch adult videos.

Eva:
So maybe you think you are prettier than the girl?

Niki:
  It is different. It is just like watching a movie, but you can’t touch that.

Eva:
So, now, we are going to say our opinion in this issue. Vicky first.

Vicky:
  It is clearly that I am standing on the agree side of this topic. Because there are lots of discussions about this issue on Internet, like PTT or the discussion boards on every forum. Lots of girls ask why my boyfriends watch adult videos when he is with me. In my sources, there are lots of responses that the boys need to vent physiological needs. If the girls think that why comes when he needs it. But I think it is not correct, because girls may have some problems, maybe they are tired, maybe they don’t in a good mood, maybe they are in the period. If the men want, but it is not the proper time for his girlfriend, I think it is an easier and more convenient way to vent his need. This is one of my opinions.

Eva:
  Now is my opinion. I am the opposition. I found a website which is published by Daisy Hung (洪蘭), the person who study in brain. She talks about people’s addition. After I read her paragraph, I think maybe watch adult videos can generate sexual addition. The paragraph she talks is that some people may say adult videos can provide people the pleasure, very enjoy feeling and also can liberate from their sexual tensions. But people who addicted to adult videos, I think he will long for it, and whatever he likes or not, because he just has this addition. And I think if one person watches adult video, he may have addition and take this thing as a routine. Maybe this will make the girl thinks “oh! You just like to watch people making love and didn’t do anything with me or not.”  

Vicky:
  And there is another my opinion, there is another sources in my blogger. The article is about people watching adult videos. The writer has done a research about why people watch adult videos. Her research shows that about fifty present people who respond that they watch adult videos because they are boring. This research also asked about the time, and most responds say that they watch it before they go to sleep. Some may not understand why you watch adult videos before you go to sleep. But one of my friends said that when you girls are boring, you may gather and go shopping, or maybe you watch the soap opera or the Korea opera on the computer. So why can’t he watch adult videos when he is boring or before he goes to sleep? Because he thought that this pleasure is the same, it is just a tool to kill time.

Eva:
        And I also found another source that the girls may think adult video is still a commodity, like adult videos should include some unrealistic or many over actions or plots to fascinate viewers. So adult videos are just for commerce. The girlfriend may think boys like to watch adult videos maybe he wants to learn some skills from adult video to teach their girlfriend, so maybe this behavior will hurt girlfriends’ heart. Some thoughts may appear in their mind, for example “my body was not good enough” or “adult video actress are prettier than me”. Girlfriends will think their boyfriends may fall into the unrealistic world, and just didn’t want to date with the real person like would rather watching adult video continued than dating with their girlfriends.

Vicky:
        And we are going to talk about our opinions, before that we talked was public opinions, and here we are going to talk about our opinion in this issue. In my opinion, I think it was okay for my boyfriend to watch adult video, because I think that it doesn’t matter. Maybe lots of adult video is really exaggerating and over. But if we are mature enough and we can tell reality from virtual I think is okay. And people all have desire, so if it is an easy and convenient way to vent desire, why not? Because I am grow, I don’t want to make sex with you for other reasons, so I think this is a way to have the best of both world. It is a proper way to solve problem without may have some fights or argue.

Eva:
        And in my opinion is some girls may ask the question on the Internet and some users may response them that “Rather let your boyfriend watch adult video without make an extramarital affair.” I think maybe he will not really to find an adult video actress to be his new girlfriend, but I think this will make him a spiritual affair, like fall in love with AV actress in mind. This behavior will ignore me and did not care about my feeling. So I think why not sit down with me and we talk about why you are boring or why you can’t go shopping with your friends too or why can’t watch a movie with me. Let’s all.

Vicky:

This is our presentation, thank you. 

2013年10月17日 星期四

Annotation Delete his D files or not



 
  My last article is talking about should girlfriends accept their boyfriends watching adult videos. 
  Men didn't know why women hate adult video so madly, and women can't understand why their boyfriends still watch it when they have girlfriends. 

  Women would consider that men watch adult videos means they didn't be satisfied. This war between men and women is always a hot issue in relationship. There are lots of discussions about it on Internet.

  Most replies on Ptt and discussion boards which stand on men's side reply that it is a custom for them and it is farfetched to connect watching adult videos and loving his girlfriend or not these two incidents.

  In the thesis in source 2, there are some reasons why men watching adult videos.


  1. Because they are boring.


  When women are boring, they would gather to go shopping. For some people, adult videos are just a tool to kill time and see it as a kind of drama.


  2. Adding desires when making love



  3.Vent physiological needs


   Some men may not have girlfriends, some men may have girlfriends but their girlfriends are tired, feel uncomfortable or their distance is too far away. Sometime, men may just want to vent physiological needs, they also know they have to respect their girlfriends. Therefore, they can't ask girlfriends for sex whenever they need it. It will make their girlfriends feel uncomfortable and disrespect. Watching adult videos become an easy and convenient way to vent physiological needs.
  People feel upset when there are too many bad moods hidden in their mind, so does the desire. It is easier to watch adult films when they want to vent physiological need. It is a physiological needs like we need to eat and sleep to live.


 4. Curiosity  

 5. Rich sex knowledge  

 6. Imitate  

 7. Satisfied the desire as a peeper  

 8. Watching beautiful and sexy people  

 9. The gyms close


  One of the functions of gym is to consume unnecessary energy, but what if the gyms closed?




Source 1: Adult Videos war between men and women A片爭霸戰
Source 2: 成人影片的來源及公眾態度調查研究 p79
Source 3:OHMYGOD. My boyfriends still watch adult videos.

2013年10月3日 星期四

Delete his D Drive or not



There is a statistic data showing that in Taiwan, most men watching adult videos once or twice a week. When talking about adult videos, most people in Taiwan would rather not talk about this and become awkward and shy. Therefore, when these men have girlfriends, they would still watch adult films, maybe without letting his girlfriend knows. Would their girlfriends delete his D drives if they are unpleasant about this? Because girlfriends would think that OH MY GOD! You still watch ADULT VIDEOS when you are with me, and they can’t understand why.

  Stand for the accepting man watching adult videos even when he has a girlfriend. Adult video is to the man what the soap drama is to woman; the difference is the adult video is for physiology when soap drama is for psychological. Man may not understand their girlfriends crying brokenly before the little screen, they may not understand their girlfriends only have two legs but they have dozens of shoes, as if they are centipedes.

  Girlfriends may consider men didn’t love you, and that is why men watch adult videos, watch other naked woman, but if he didn’t love you, they may just break up with you and find another girlfriend immediately.





2013年10月2日 星期三

Committee a Crime or a Suicide



  Why name this article is because,when talking about killing one person ,we called it a serious crime. But, hen it was going to about committee  suicide, is this still could be called a crime?  The suicide left the world, leaving parents, friends, and the responsibility behind escape his life, his heavy burden, is this still called a crime?

  At first, this is not saying that suicide is a correct decision, it is going to talk about whether it is guilty or not.
 Suppose it was a crime, it was a guilty for him to leave his parents after they have raised  him for so many years, it was a guilty he left his duty to people who love him, but every person is an independent individuality. After he was born and left his mom's womb, he is himself completely, he has his own right to choose to end his life or let it live on. We have the free will, that is the different between us and the other animals, therefore; if one person need the permission to ask for die, then what else left could a man do?

  If one's life is so hard to survive, if it is more cruel for one to live on, it is his life, he could choose when to end his life and how long his life should be. Every decision costs price, if one man choose to committee suicide, his price is his life for good and all.

  The last, to mention again, it is not saying that suicide is a correct decision.