2013年10月30日 星期三

Delete his D drive or not (Annotation 2)

After the presentation last week, I got some peer responses and made me rethink more details about my topic. Some responses replied that I should consider the age and the problem of addition. Man and Woman I had mentioned in my blogger are been defined as adults, who have the ability to make choice by themselves. Talking about addition, I thought you can’t blamed it all on adult videos, if though, then watching soap opera or do anything may also lead to addition.

Josephine Chuen-juei Ho, the professor of Department of English at NCU once said that society usually regards adult videos as devil or something dirty, and seen it as the main reason why sexual harassments and sexual violences happen.

But, if it is that easy the reality could be affected by watching adult videos, and been connected to the incidents mentioned above. Then we should prohibit lots of movies that we called exciting movies (爽片), which means the movies only have lots of huge scenes and without consuming audiences’ brain cells, and most people loves to watch them during their free time. If so, Fast and Furious should be prohibited because it may lead to car crushes and drag racings, and lots of action movies also need to be prohibited because it would lead to violent cases.

It is true that some of the adult videos present in a violent way, like 3P or SM…etc. But this is how the market works, the demand exists and the supply shows up. If we have to forbid the film-makes to take this kind of adult videos, I think it is more important to focus on education, to tell the students what is too exaggerating and what is unrealistic instead of seeing it as something untellable. Because they will find another way to know this, and without education, they would just accept all this unrealistic information.
  
  

Wang Hau Jung. (2012). “It is hard for sex to get rid of the negative tag(Chinese). Retrieved July 03, 2012, from http://www.coolloud.org.tw/node/70082
  

Delete his D drive or not (Video Transcription)

Vicky:
Hello, everyone. Our topic is “Delete his D drive or not”. First, I want to tell you a story. I have two friends and they are couples, and one day they have an argue and then they broke up. The girl came to tell me that the reason. Because one day found that there are some adult films in the boy’s cellphone. She couldn’t understand her boyfriend had those films in his cellphone. So she asked her boyfriend, and her boyfriend said it is usual for men have adult videos in their cellphones. But my girlfriend didn’t accept answer, because she thinks that why you have adult films in the cellphone when you have girlfriend? So they have a very furious fight. After that, one day, my girlfriend deleted her boyfriend’s adult films all in his cellphone. The boy was really really really angry. But I didn’t know that his angry part is because his girlfriend deleted the adult films or because he thought that his girlfriend didn’t respect him to delete his files and didn’t tell him. This is my story. One day, when Eva and I are very very confusing about our topic, we think about it, and this is why we want to do about this topic, and Eva will ask you some question.

Eva:
  HI,I am Eva. I am going to ask you guys some questions. “Can you accept your boyfriend or girlfriend to watch adult videos when you are together or in the relationship. If you accept, please raise your hand. And if you can not accept this ,please raise your hand. So this is very clear, I am the opposition and she is agreeing with this issue.

Vicky:
  I want to ask Kevin a question, Kevin, may I ask you question? I want ask your opinion about our topic.

Kevin:
  I just think that too much adult films is not good for me.

Vicky and Eva:
  Our topic is about your lover.

Kevin:
  @#$%. I am afraid she will compare me to the 12344?

Eva:
  And I want to ask Niki, why you accept your boyfriend watch adult videos?

Niki:
  I don’t think it is false to watch adult videos.

Eva:
So maybe you think you are prettier than the girl?

Niki:
  It is different. It is just like watching a movie, but you can’t touch that.

Eva:
So, now, we are going to say our opinion in this issue. Vicky first.

Vicky:
  It is clearly that I am standing on the agree side of this topic. Because there are lots of discussions about this issue on Internet, like PTT or the discussion boards on every forum. Lots of girls ask why my boyfriends watch adult videos when he is with me. In my sources, there are lots of responses that the boys need to vent physiological needs. If the girls think that why comes when he needs it. But I think it is not correct, because girls may have some problems, maybe they are tired, maybe they don’t in a good mood, maybe they are in the period. If the men want, but it is not the proper time for his girlfriend, I think it is an easier and more convenient way to vent his need. This is one of my opinions.

Eva:
  Now is my opinion. I am the opposition. I found a website which is published by Daisy Hung (洪蘭), the person who study in brain. She talks about people’s addition. After I read her paragraph, I think maybe watch adult videos can generate sexual addition. The paragraph she talks is that some people may say adult videos can provide people the pleasure, very enjoy feeling and also can liberate from their sexual tensions. But people who addicted to adult videos, I think he will long for it, and whatever he likes or not, because he just has this addition. And I think if one person watches adult video, he may have addition and take this thing as a routine. Maybe this will make the girl thinks “oh! You just like to watch people making love and didn’t do anything with me or not.”  

Vicky:
  And there is another my opinion, there is another sources in my blogger. The article is about people watching adult videos. The writer has done a research about why people watch adult videos. Her research shows that about fifty present people who respond that they watch adult videos because they are boring. This research also asked about the time, and most responds say that they watch it before they go to sleep. Some may not understand why you watch adult videos before you go to sleep. But one of my friends said that when you girls are boring, you may gather and go shopping, or maybe you watch the soap opera or the Korea opera on the computer. So why can’t he watch adult videos when he is boring or before he goes to sleep? Because he thought that this pleasure is the same, it is just a tool to kill time.

Eva:
        And I also found another source that the girls may think adult video is still a commodity, like adult videos should include some unrealistic or many over actions or plots to fascinate viewers. So adult videos are just for commerce. The girlfriend may think boys like to watch adult videos maybe he wants to learn some skills from adult video to teach their girlfriend, so maybe this behavior will hurt girlfriends’ heart. Some thoughts may appear in their mind, for example “my body was not good enough” or “adult video actress are prettier than me”. Girlfriends will think their boyfriends may fall into the unrealistic world, and just didn’t want to date with the real person like would rather watching adult video continued than dating with their girlfriends.

Vicky:
        And we are going to talk about our opinions, before that we talked was public opinions, and here we are going to talk about our opinion in this issue. In my opinion, I think it was okay for my boyfriend to watch adult video, because I think that it doesn’t matter. Maybe lots of adult video is really exaggerating and over. But if we are mature enough and we can tell reality from virtual I think is okay. And people all have desire, so if it is an easy and convenient way to vent desire, why not? Because I am grow, I don’t want to make sex with you for other reasons, so I think this is a way to have the best of both world. It is a proper way to solve problem without may have some fights or argue.

Eva:
        And in my opinion is some girls may ask the question on the Internet and some users may response them that “Rather let your boyfriend watch adult video without make an extramarital affair.” I think maybe he will not really to find an adult video actress to be his new girlfriend, but I think this will make him a spiritual affair, like fall in love with AV actress in mind. This behavior will ignore me and did not care about my feeling. So I think why not sit down with me and we talk about why you are boring or why you can’t go shopping with your friends too or why can’t watch a movie with me. Let’s all.

Vicky:

This is our presentation, thank you. 

2013年10月17日 星期四

Annotation Delete his D files or not



 
  My last article is talking about should girlfriends accept their boyfriends watching adult videos. 
  Men didn't know why women hate adult video so madly, and women can't understand why their boyfriends still watch it when they have girlfriends. 

  Women would consider that men watch adult videos means they didn't be satisfied. This war between men and women is always a hot issue in relationship. There are lots of discussions about it on Internet.

  Most replies on Ptt and discussion boards which stand on men's side reply that it is a custom for them and it is farfetched to connect watching adult videos and loving his girlfriend or not these two incidents.

  In the thesis in source 2, there are some reasons why men watching adult videos.


  1. Because they are boring.


  When women are boring, they would gather to go shopping. For some people, adult videos are just a tool to kill time and see it as a kind of drama.


  2. Adding desires when making love



  3.Vent physiological needs


   Some men may not have girlfriends, some men may have girlfriends but their girlfriends are tired, feel uncomfortable or their distance is too far away. Sometime, men may just want to vent physiological needs, they also know they have to respect their girlfriends. Therefore, they can't ask girlfriends for sex whenever they need it. It will make their girlfriends feel uncomfortable and disrespect. Watching adult videos become an easy and convenient way to vent physiological needs.
  People feel upset when there are too many bad moods hidden in their mind, so does the desire. It is easier to watch adult films when they want to vent physiological need. It is a physiological needs like we need to eat and sleep to live.


 4. Curiosity  

 5. Rich sex knowledge  

 6. Imitate  

 7. Satisfied the desire as a peeper  

 8. Watching beautiful and sexy people  

 9. The gyms close


  One of the functions of gym is to consume unnecessary energy, but what if the gyms closed?




Source 1: Adult Videos war between men and women A片爭霸戰
Source 2: 成人影片的來源及公眾態度調查研究 p79
Source 3:OHMYGOD. My boyfriends still watch adult videos.

2013年10月3日 星期四

Delete his D Drive or not



There is a statistic data showing that in Taiwan, most men watching adult videos once or twice a week. When talking about adult videos, most people in Taiwan would rather not talk about this and become awkward and shy. Therefore, when these men have girlfriends, they would still watch adult films, maybe without letting his girlfriend knows. Would their girlfriends delete his D drives if they are unpleasant about this? Because girlfriends would think that OH MY GOD! You still watch ADULT VIDEOS when you are with me, and they can’t understand why.

  Stand for the accepting man watching adult videos even when he has a girlfriend. Adult video is to the man what the soap drama is to woman; the difference is the adult video is for physiology when soap drama is for psychological. Man may not understand their girlfriends crying brokenly before the little screen, they may not understand their girlfriends only have two legs but they have dozens of shoes, as if they are centipedes.

  Girlfriends may consider men didn’t love you, and that is why men watch adult videos, watch other naked woman, but if he didn’t love you, they may just break up with you and find another girlfriend immediately.





2013年10月2日 星期三

Committee a Crime or a Suicide



  Why name this article is because,when talking about killing one person ,we called it a serious crime. But, hen it was going to about committee  suicide, is this still could be called a crime?  The suicide left the world, leaving parents, friends, and the responsibility behind escape his life, his heavy burden, is this still called a crime?

  At first, this is not saying that suicide is a correct decision, it is going to talk about whether it is guilty or not.
 Suppose it was a crime, it was a guilty for him to leave his parents after they have raised  him for so many years, it was a guilty he left his duty to people who love him, but every person is an independent individuality. After he was born and left his mom's womb, he is himself completely, he has his own right to choose to end his life or let it live on. We have the free will, that is the different between us and the other animals, therefore; if one person need the permission to ask for die, then what else left could a man do?

  If one's life is so hard to survive, if it is more cruel for one to live on, it is his life, he could choose when to end his life and how long his life should be. Every decision costs price, if one man choose to committee suicide, his price is his life for good and all.

  The last, to mention again, it is not saying that suicide is a correct decision.