2013年10月17日 星期四

Annotation Delete his D files or not



 
  My last article is talking about should girlfriends accept their boyfriends watching adult videos. 
  Men didn't know why women hate adult video so madly, and women can't understand why their boyfriends still watch it when they have girlfriends. 

  Women would consider that men watch adult videos means they didn't be satisfied. This war between men and women is always a hot issue in relationship. There are lots of discussions about it on Internet.

  Most replies on Ptt and discussion boards which stand on men's side reply that it is a custom for them and it is farfetched to connect watching adult videos and loving his girlfriend or not these two incidents.

  In the thesis in source 2, there are some reasons why men watching adult videos.


  1. Because they are boring.


  When women are boring, they would gather to go shopping. For some people, adult videos are just a tool to kill time and see it as a kind of drama.


  2. Adding desires when making love



  3.Vent physiological needs


   Some men may not have girlfriends, some men may have girlfriends but their girlfriends are tired, feel uncomfortable or their distance is too far away. Sometime, men may just want to vent physiological needs, they also know they have to respect their girlfriends. Therefore, they can't ask girlfriends for sex whenever they need it. It will make their girlfriends feel uncomfortable and disrespect. Watching adult videos become an easy and convenient way to vent physiological needs.
  People feel upset when there are too many bad moods hidden in their mind, so does the desire. It is easier to watch adult films when they want to vent physiological need. It is a physiological needs like we need to eat and sleep to live.


 4. Curiosity  

 5. Rich sex knowledge  

 6. Imitate  

 7. Satisfied the desire as a peeper  

 8. Watching beautiful and sexy people  

 9. The gyms close


  One of the functions of gym is to consume unnecessary energy, but what if the gyms closed?




Source 1: Adult Videos war between men and women A片爭霸戰
Source 2: 成人影片的來源及公眾態度調查研究 p79
Source 3:OHMYGOD. My boyfriends still watch adult videos.

13 則留言:

  1. (1)You type a semicolon at the end in your first paragraph, I think it is unnecessary.

    (2)"There are lots of discussion...."
    You can change to "discussions" or "There is"

    (3)"this two incidents" change to "these"

    (4)"feel uncomfortable or their distance are too far away" change to "is too far away"

    (5)And I think your discussion is easy to read.

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  2. I won't stop my lover from watching adaults' films because I think it's human.
    And maybe it's a way for him to relax.
    it's an interesting issue to dicuss.
    but I get to think about some limits like age that you might consider.

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  3. Before I speak out my opinions, i would like to say that your topic is so fresh and interesting haha, The question in the beginning, i vote for approval. Since i believe that it is personal freedom to decide what they want to watch. it is just like girls enjoys watching rubbish (to boys) romance series, we all have the freedom to decide what should be our entertainment. However, this arouse one question in me. Since adult movies are still...um...a little more special than usual romance series or baseball games, would it be the cause of the dissatisfaction between couples? Would the comparison between the adult movie and real life become the cause of their argument?

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  4. I agree with you. And your annotation with Eva was sensational.
    I won't mind that my boyfriend watch adult films, either.I think it's a kind of spiritual imagination so it doesn't matter. But if he is deeply addicted to adult films, I would still try to "talk " to him about it.

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  5. It is good to start your presentation with a story. And I think you need to organize your story more concise. Also, I can see your effort in doing so many researches and conversation between your friends. You show confidence when standing on the stage, which makes me really impressed.

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  6. You told a story first to let us follow your idea, this is nice. I will also let my boyfriend watch adult films, and I don't think it would affect our relationship. You said sometimes girls are not in the mood to satisfy their boyfriends, but I don't think girls should be responsible for boys physical needs. This is an really interesting topic.

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  7. Your introduction is innovative,interactive and quite interesting. It is true that adult video sometimes really compensate men's desire to have sex.

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  8. It is good to start with a story, which can draw everyone's attention. I agree with you. It is ok that my boyfriend watches adult films if he doesn't invite me to watch them with him. Maybe the development of our relationship doesn't reach the extent to have sex. So it is very health and normal that he may need some excitements.

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  9. I like the way you two discuss your issue papers. The method of asking questions can catch our attention successfully. As your part, I like your story as an example especially. It makes your representation different and special from others. I can understand your standpoint. But sometimes, it's a little too fast for your speaking speed.

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  10. Your story help me understand your point and presentation. The information you provided is reasonable. Men can satisfy their physiological need by adult videos. However, excessive addiction to those videos is not a good thing.

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  11. I found something confusing in your annotation. The first point: They are boring. Do you really mean they are "boring"? or actually you want to say "bored"? I am kind of confused.
    And in your presentation, you divide two sections about public opinion and yourself opinion. But I cannot understand your main points in the presentation.
    I agree with your side,though.

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  12. I agree with you that if women feel uncomfortable, it is okay for men to watch adult films. And the comparison between adult videos for men and soap opera or Korean TV shows for women are interesting since we girls watch soap opera when we are bored, so why not men watch adult videos as a pastime?

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  13. It's good to strart your presentation with asking audience question. I think your presentation was just like a TV show, and the interaction between you and Eva totally caught my attention.
    To me, I can accept my boyfriend watching adult films, but I hope he will not be addicted to them.

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