Statistic data shows that in Taiwan, most men watch adult videos once or twice a week. When these men have girlfriends, they would still watch adult films, maybe without letting their girlfriends know. Therefore, would these girlfriends delete his D drives if they are unpleasant about this? Their girlfriends would think “OH MY GOD! You still watch ADULT VIDEOS when you are with me”. They can’t understand why.
Below is one of my friend’s story.
I have two friends and they are couples. One day they have an argue later they broke up in a few days. The reason is because one day girl found that there are some adult films in the boy’s cellphone, and she couldn’t understand. So she asked her boyfriend, and her boyfriend said it is usual for men to have adult videos in their cellphones. But the girl didn’t accept answer, she thinks that why you have adult films in the cellphone when you have girlfriend? After that, they had a furious fight. One day, the girl deleted her boyfriend’s adult films all in his cellphone. The boy was really angry. But I didn’t know that his angry part is because his girlfriend deleted the adult films or because he thought that his girlfriend didn’t respect him to delete his files and didn’t tell him.
I stand for accepting a man watching adult videos even when he has a girlfriend.
Girlfriends may think that men don’t love them, so they watch adult videos, and other naked women. But, it is unfair and ridiculous to connect these two incidents together, since some women would cave into the drama plot and couldn’t get out.
An adult video is to a man what a soap drama is to a woman; the difference is that an adult video is for physiological needs when soap drama is for psychological needs. Man may not understand their girlfriends crying over before the little screen. They may not understand their girlfriends only have two legs but they have dozens of shoes, as if they are centipedes. Even though, the adult videos’ tastes now are dramatic, but according to the motivation, it is the same, and it won’t affect the relationship between the lovers.