Hi, everyone, my name is Eva and she is Vicky, first I want to tell everyone take easy, forget about something related to abortion. Let’s enjoy some easy topic. Monica, what is in your d drive? there are homework, music and some picture!
Roger I want to know what is in your d drive.
yes, videos games, movies.
yes, you got it, our topic is about ….adult video!!!!!
that is our topic. In Taiwan, most male would put the adult videos in their d drive, most is the male. And I will tell you a story about my friend. I have two friends and they are couples. One day they have an argue later they broke up in a few days. The reason is because one day girl found that there are some adult films in the boy’s cellphone, and she couldn’t understand. So she asked her boyfriend, and her boyfriend said why not? But the girl didn’t accept answer, after that, they had a furious fight, and then they broke up. So we are going to talk about do adult videos really ruin one relationship?
In this topic I’m supporting side, because I think I do really care so I want to delete it. Although I am not a kind of girlfriend that really want to broke up with my boyfriend who watched adult videos. This is a kind of problem will appear in our relationship. Here’s my outline. First is about Porn in relationship, like some defect of watching adult video. And then I will show a video which is about the porn sex verse real sex. And the third one is the situation in Taiwan who watching adult video. And the last one is a survey from BBC. So now I’m going to tell you the defect of watching adult videos. Although someone will think adult video just an entertainment like girls will go shopping to spend their time. But in fact, I think watching adult video must bring some bad influence. Like first one, we know adult video is just a commodity, if you keep watching, it will cause an addiction, so it will make you couldn't tell reality from the fantasy. And next may influence you and your lover, like ignore your lover just like keep going watch adult video and didn't want to date with your lover. Adult video is just a drama, easy to say, it is fake, so it may express wrong information about sex. Finally it will influence your life. When we talk about can’t tell reality from fantasy, I will show you a video. This is a video which about the difference between porn sex and real sex, and this video will use some fruits and vegetables to replace some sexual scene. And I want to show you another video, is HuffPost, they saw that video and they inspired by the video, and they spoke to woman who worked in porn industry and asked them to share what's the difference between porn sex and real sex. Here's the first woman, she called Jincey, and she is a sex officer in some sexual website. She said most of adult videos were by cutting and posing in front of camera. And second woman, she is an adult video actress in America. What did she said is “Pornography is a paid, professional performance by actors. It is a fantasy, it is not meant to be a rulebook and guidebook or a how to as a general rule. And it goes to show how poor our sex education is in this country that people are reduced to looking at an entertainment medium for information about the body.”
I want to talk about the situation of people who watched adult video in Taiwan. According to the search from Taipei Woman Rescue Foundation, the frequency of watching adult video in Taiwan is the highest rate in the world. But most of people in Taiwan were not be satisfied with their sex life. And here is another survey about after watching adult videos how people will change their behavior. Like this one, if you walking on the road, and saw sexy woman or handsome boy, you will watch their bottom first, and more want to have sex with them.
Final I will talk another survey which surveyed 1,057 adults aged 18-24 for the research. So there is a result, the average man in the study spent more than two hours a week surfing adult sites, compared with less than fifteen minutes for the average woman. A quarter of all men in the survey said they were worried about the amount of porn they were looking at, while almost as many said they were concerned about the type of images they were viewing. Four per cent of men aged 18-24 said they used adult sites for more than 10 hours a week, a level which doctors describe as "problematic and potentially compulsive". And after this survey they found some influencing behavior. Higher numbers of those heavy users said their porn viewing had upset a partner or caused them to miss a meeting at work. Men looking at porn for at least 10 hours a week were also more likely to say it can put them off real-life sex. Sixty-one per cent agreed it could make you less interested in sex with a partner. My part is finished, is time for Vicky.
Vicky: My side is I don’t mind it so just watch it. First in Taiwan, most people post the negative tag on the adult videos. But, just like the picture, why so serious about this? And there are some reasons, the net pals in the PTT or discussion board said why they watch adult videos. It is that they need to vent their physiological need, because they are board, curious, adding desire and consuming energy. Next, it one tv show in Taiwan, hot issue, in this episode, it interview two couples who adult videos in their relationships in different ages. On the top of the picture, you could see us the elder couple, they are Cool Mom and Cool Dad. They are married for almost 20 years and have children. They would watch adult videos to promote their feelings with their children. Instead of forbidding them to watch adult videos, they would choose to let them watch and discuss with them to tell them the differences between video and reality. Below is the younger couple, Mia and Echo, Echo said that sometimes his needs are too frequent; he would download the adult video beforehand, and watch it to vent physiological needs when Mia was taking a bath. And sometimes his needs are too frequent, he thinks it is a problem for Mia, and Mia may not in a good or she didn’t feel well. There is one picture interesting on the internet, “Porn movie and Disney are responsible for the most frustrated human beings I know.” The girl thought that where the hell is my prince charming? And the boy thought where the hell is my insatiable whore? It is funny to compare adult videos and Disney, because actually it gives people the different meaning when watch it. People would think Disney is good for children because it is lovely. But if girl is too addicted into that she would just sit at her house and wait for the prince comes and rescue her. No matter what, if you are really addicted to it, it would still influence your life. Next, let’s talk about the exciting movies and adult videos. Sediq Bale, it is a famous movie in Taiwan. It has some cutting head scene I, so maybe when I watch it and one day I see Nod, I would want to cut of this head. And the fast and furious, maybe people watch it and they thought it is cool to drive fast and they would have a lot of girlfriend. And there are lots of fights and violence in transformation and the batman, people may thought it is ok to carry a gun and shoot everyone. There are the words from Tracy Clark-Flory. She said that “If porn can be damaging to relationships, it is, as with most things, often in our refusal to communicate honestly about it with our partners.” Therefore, even your lover gets exciting by watching adult videos doesn’t mean you are not attractive or they don’t like you. Trust your lover, he or she knows the different between what is reality, means you and the imagination, which means the adult videos.
Vicky: My conclusion is, it is not a problem. Even your lover gets exciting by watching adult videos doesn’t mean you are not attractive. Trust your lover, he or she knows the different between what is real and what is fake. Just like the funny picture, Jesus is watching you, even the adult videos.